It is a time to investigate if the person is the right person you dream to have as a husband or a wife. You are making a choice for your children which is going to be their final choice. Ask yourself if this person is the good person you want your children to call mother or father. You should avoid any sexual encounters. If the person insist to go further than just allowing you to get to know him, then you must know that all he wants is just pleasure of flesh and throw you away later. You must hold on to your faith.

Avoid talking about sexual issues. If that is all he has then know why he wants to be your friend. In all things you must protect yourself from being fooled by someone who may pretend as the right person. Avoid having sexual encounter untill marriage.

Many research prove that women who truthfully dedicate their lives in purity before marriage, even if the marriage does not succeed brings up great leaders, learners and most powerful offspring. The results are that over 97% of those women even if failed to succeed in life, builds a family that great leaders and learners descend from. Be a blessing to your children and your offspring. You must not allow anything to interrupt you and your God / Allah . It is He the living God who gives at the appropriate time.

Be fair and open to someone who is sincerely trying to get to know if both of you have something in common. But be wise because there are many others who are also just looking for the pleasure of you and then throw you away after they have got all they wanted.

Be wise and let the word of God lead you and guide your path. You will never fail ! Do not do things your own way. If you know in your heart that, there is a possibility that both of you may end up as married couple, then do all you can to protect the friendship but avoid sexual contacts. Avoiding going in bed with the person will end you a respect if the relationship goes further into marriage.

If the relationship will end because you are not given in to sexual demands before marriage, then know that it won't end up in marriage even if you do go in bed with the person. There is a great difference between Love and Lust. Love sees through the heart to perfection and how good it can give but lust sees through the pleasures of the flesh to satisfy itself. Seek love but not lust.

Anything can happen even in marriage. Sickness can come, problems may arise, a man who will end a friendship for the reason that you didnt agree to have sex with while you are just dating, will betray you even in marriage.Keep yourself clean and the Living God who covered Adam and Eve from seeing nakedness, will surely put a protective shield around you as well. No matter what happens, do not let a pleasure that won't last for even a day take away your life long blessing. Never, never, never send your naked picture to anyone! You may be the next first lady in your country or a prominent member in your coommunity. It will come back to hunt you in your days when you least expect. The future may not be that long.

Vain promises and deception are the main reasons many women are also suffering today from barreness, diseases and pain. Many would have been blessed but due to immoral conduct and such reasons above has caused many women to be the least among those they started life with. Be sincere and truthful in all you do. We must all try to confront our wrongul past with sincerity and regretful hearts to correct our future.

I am sharing this life experience with you. It has nothing to do with my believe as a Christian. We may have our different faces but causes of our pain and misfortunes are the same. If you are a woman, be a blessing to others and not a curse. It may come back to hunt you later in life. Did you ever ask yourself why that beautiful woman has been struggling to get married but that ugly girl is so blessed with a happy marriage? There are things we do that drive our destiny and bring about misfortunes in life.

If you can answer that question, then answer my question here for me, why is it that muslim women who truely live their lives as muslim women and cover their nakedness as far as they can seem to be more happier in life and more successful in their endeavours although with little " freedom" ?

If you are a man and a believer, you also have to be very careful with the person you meet. There are many men who have falling prey to the things we do not see with our naked eyes. Any cheap thing comes with a hidden price. Be wise and sincere in all things. Avoid vain promises. If you know in your heart, that you can not carry on a relationship with the person you have met, do not make promises, it will come back to hunt you later in life. The Bible says, the Lord God in Heaven despises and hates people who give vain promises. Do not let pleasure of the flesh that won't even last you an hour take away your life long blessing. Many men have suffered through this.

There are many men today whose lives are shattered but do not know why all the good things they plan to do in life end up with misfortune. Perhaps, you made a vow or a promise which you may have forgotten to keep.Be fair to everyone you meet.

Taking away the pride of a woman such as virginity and later ignoring the person, has the tendancy to put your life upside down. You may not know the effect such a thing can cause in your life but any time the person remembers about her youthful misfortune with you in pain you may be hit spiritually and things will never go well.

You can correct this if you unknowingly caused such a pain to someone whose pride was her virginity by apologising to the person to correct any mistake you unknowingly commited no matter how many years ago it happened. It may be the cause of your misfortunes. You must confront the person truthfully and regretfully to apologise to her pain. Perhaps, that action you once took is the cause of her breaking marriage and trustAfter this truthful apology, the woman may confide in you once again but becareful never to translate that as a sign that she wants you. This is common among women but in their minds, it has nothing to do with lust or love it is purely friendhip with truth and the need to have someone to talk to.

There have been many reasons great men fall from grace to disgrace but the most prominent reason is women. Women are the most greatest gift and the most wonderful gift God used to crown His beautiful creation. Women are precious but can cause you a great misfortune and a disaster if not handled with care. Be wise in all you do and take very good care if you have been blessed with one. Do not let the pleasure of life that wouldn't even last you an hour take away your life long blessing. The future may not be that long.